Friday, August 13, 2010

I Wrote My Mother In Law's Obituary

JOYCE FORNOFF WESTON
Saturday evening, August 7, 2010, Joyce Fornoff Weston finished her wonderful journey in beautiful Cache Valley where she lived her entire life. She was born on July 8, 1927 in Ogden, UT to Harold Leonard Fornoff and Ruth Pingree Fornoff. Living her youth in Logan she fell in love with Todd G. Weston. They married October 16, 1946. Their marriage was solemnized in the Logan Utah LDS Temple. Their love and devotion brought to Earth five wonderful children. Grandma Joyce’s life could be described as a life with a fierce loyalty and deep and everlasting love for her husband. She supported him in his business ventures and his political endeavors locally and statewide. She took care of him as he took care of her. Joyce and Todd loved their children and were pleased with their accomplishments and deeply and emotionally involved in the trials that came from time to time. Joyce is known throughout Cache Valley for her love of music and her incredible talent playing the piano—she mastered it. She taught hundreds of students including students from Utah State University while she was associated there with the Music Department. Many times she expressed her desire to play for anyone at any time. Joyce served faithfully in all she was called to do, serving in particular for many years in the Relief Society including a time as President. She accompanied the ward choir for what seemed like decades.

Joyce Weston is one of those people who make you feel like your life is better just by knowing her. Her smile and laughter were contagious. When one thinks back on her life she can truthfully be described with these words; loving, without guile, innocent, desirous to do good, unwilling to do wrong, giving but also appreciative to receive, thrifty and as she would say sometimes Scotch. She could not stand to throw away anything especially wrapping paper on her presents. Grandma was always happy to see us. Gathering her family at Christmas seemed to be her favorite time during the year and she could make it seem to last until Valentine’s Day. When you went to Grandma’s house you could never eat enough. She always wanted to give more. This was symbolic of her life as she served and lifted many people for many years. Her tired and worn body finally gave up, but her tremendous Spirit and incredible love will never fatigue in the hearts and minds of her family and all those who knew her.

Grandma Joyce was preceded in death by her husband Todd G. Weston, her parents and her little baby sister Carol who was born on Christmas Eve and died at the age of four. She leaves her children and their spouses, Bart and Judy Weston, Randy and Debi Weston, Joyce and Greg Oman, Julie and Jim Ridd and Sam and Judy Weston. Joyce and Todd enjoyed 18 grandchildren from these unions. These grandchildren have given Joyce 24 great -grandchildren with at least 4 more coming in the near future. Joyce is survived by her brother Louis Fornoff and his wife Shirley. The family is grateful for all those who have cared for Grandma Joyce these past 3 years, especially the staff at Legacy House in Logan. We will remember Joyce with a Viewing Tuesday August 10, 2010 from 6:00 to 8:00 PM at the Allen-Hall Mortuary, 34 East Center in Logan, UT. Funeral Services are planned for Noon on Wednesday, August 11, 2010 at the River Heights Stake Center, 800 South 600 East, River Heights, UT with a viewing prior to the funeral from 10:00 to 11:30. Interment will be in the Providence Cemetery.

1 comment:

  1. Hey Greg, nicely written. I actually guessed you had probably written this when I read it the first time. You are very articulate and a very talented writer, I enjoy reading your posts.

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